Buzz Buzz! It’s Bee-atrice! Recently I check in my advice box and found my first request. The request the student gave me stated they are talking to someone in their DMs (aww), but then found themselves not getting those same vibes in person. They didn’t know what to do, so they came to me. Here is my response. 

Dear “Left in the DMs”,

I see your issue and am here to help! If you’re not happy with him not acknowledging you in person, then in this case, confrontation is your friend.

• If you feel like you two are getting along over the phone and building a friendship, or maybe something more, you shouldn’t feel like a stranger to the person when you’re not behind the phone screen anymore. The person you’re communicating with shouldn’t get to choose when they acknowledge you. You need to address it with this person, and let them know that you’re unhappy with how they are acting. From there, if their actions stay the same, you need to drop Mr. Indecisive.
• But if they decide they want to pursue this relationship both over the phone and in real life (fingers crossed) and you still want them, go for it!

I wish you the best of luck and hope they make the right choice! Oops, I gotta go. But don’t worry, I’ll always “bee” here when you need me. 

No pressure, no names–just an honest buzz. If you need advice click here.

Until next time,
Bee-atrice! … Bzzz